Living and Learning
hoi hoii..cuma pengen ngasi tau nih..blog saya sudah pindah yaa.. jadi klo mau liat2 klik sini aja. okehh.. cheers ^o^
lg iseng nihh..hehe
gw punya 10 ekor hamster di rumah..banyak yah..tadinya mau dibanyakin lagi,tapi berhubung tempat ga memadai jadi dibikin program kb deh.gw pisah cewe ma cowo.hehe
let me introduce u to my hamsters family..:)
~Dexter~ head of the clan
salah satu dari hamster prtama yang gw punya. jadi awalnya gw punya hamster itu krn dikasih sm temen2 gw, berhubung anjing gw mati dulu jadi gw ga punya piaraan lagi jadi dia org ngasi gw sepasang hamster..hehe thx again loh teman2:)
anyway dexter itu jenis camble. warnanya coklat ada garis item tipis di punggungnya.dulu2 awalnya tuh jinak banget,nurut mau gw apain aja..eh bbrapa bulan yang lalu jadi ganas gtu,suka gigit,sampe berdarah.korbannya gw,tangan gw brapa kali digigit.prnah sekali jari gw digigit,trus gw goyang2 dia ga mau lepas,gelantungan gtu gigit jari gw, sampe akirnya gw ayunin tangan gw akhirnya dia baru mau lepas,tapi jari gw lgsg berdarah buanyak gtu.huaa sejak itu gw ga brani sembarangan ma dexter lagi.hehe selaen itu korbannya ponakan gw si darlene prnah digigit.lucunya dia (si darlene) bengong dulu baru nangis.hehehe trus nyokap jg prnh digigit kynya.sama si remy (anaknya dexter) jg prnah digigit kakinya smp brdarah jg.ckckck jadi harus ati2 bgt d klo pegang dexter. makanya skrg dia jadi dipisah sndiri di kandangnya.biar yg lain aman semua dr gigitannya.hehehe
~Nio~ si ibu perkasa
Nio itu jenis dominan spot, warna putih sama di punggungnya item abu2 gtu.hebat loh.sampe saat ini udah ngelahirin 7+7+7+5=26 ekor anak klo ga salah itung.hebat yah.tp jd kesian,yg dulunya mayan gemuk jadi skrg kurusss banget.trus jd anti laki2 gtu.hoho klo ktemu hams jantan lgsg berantem.:)
~Remy~ si tukang minum
Nah,mule skrg kita bahas anak2nya dex n nio nih.hehe remy itu satu dari 7 anak batch pertama. FYI,hamster itu masa hamilnya cuma 3 mggu, dan dalam waktu 3 mggu berikutnya bisa hamil lagi.haha ribet yah. anyway remy itu hamster gw satu2nya yang warna item.ky tikus si klo sekilas.tapi lucu,dy di leher bagian bawahnya warna putih gtu,jadi kaya pake tuxedo gtu, item putih.hehe remy itu demeennn bgt minum.klo minum tu ky uda ga dikasi minum seminggu gtu.trus egois bgt,yg lain klo lg minum,klo dia mau jg lgsg direbut gtu ga mau tau.haha but this is one of my favorite:)
~Jaques aka jaq~ si hamster akrobat
jaq itu anak batch 1 jg,warnanya coklat,mirip dexter.tapi lucu suka ajak gw main,gigit jari gw tapi becanda,trus dia demeenn banget salto.tiap malem dia suka naik ke atas jungkat-jungkit trus dia loncat keblakang,salto gtu.hebat deh.hehe salah satu hmster paling friendly di rmh.
~Gusteau aka gus~ the runner
gusteau warna putih ada corak abu2 gtu.demen bgt lari2 kelilingin jungkat-jungkit.biasanya dia lari satu lap,trus masuk terowongan,trus lari lagi 1-2 lap.hehe
~Skippy~ si tukang bengong
yg ini mirip jg sama dexter n jaq, tapi mukanya lucu.trus dia demen bgt bengong.kadang ikut2an maen gigit2 jari gw sama jaq.
~Lilo~ the miniest
lilo tu hamster paling kecil,warna putih mirip gusteau.tapi sayang dia dari bayi udah handicapped gtu,ga tau gara2 apa.tapi tetep lucu si.hehe
That’s the boys,now here comes the girls..:)
~Nuttela aka nut2~
nut2 itu warna coklat jg,mirip sama dexter.demen banget makan sambil tiduran telentang gtu.marenan smpet dihamili sama dexter/remy,tapi keguguran gtu.hoho
~Chiqeeta aka chiki~
hamster gw yang demen dongak ke atas,jadi agak suka kaya salto gtu,klo berdiri tar jato keblakang.hoho aneh memang
~Ava~ si gendut preman
hamster gw yg paling gendut dan preman di kandang cewe.suka membully hmster2 cewe lainnya,terutama mamanya sndiri,si nio.emang anak durhaka ini si ava. hehe
wuih jd panjang jg yah critanya.hehe anyway seneng jg si punya hmster,jadi ada mainan di rumah.klo main gtu bisa jadi lama jg,kdg2 jadi suka lupa waktu.hehe cuman klo nyuci kandangnya aja nih ribet,mana bau lagi.huah yah ada plus minusnya si.hehe so bagi yang mo piara hamster,ayo piara aja,gampang kok ngurusnya.cuman yah msti di-kb in ky gw kali yah,klo ga bisa beranak pinak terus tuh.hehehe ![]()
As an ISFJ, your primary mode of living is focused internally, where you takes things in via your five senses in a literal, concrete fashion. Your secondary mode is external, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit into your personal value system.
ISFJs live in a world that is concrete and kind. They are truly warm and kind-hearted, and want to believe the best of people. They value harmony and cooperation, and are likely to be very sensitive to other people’s feelings. People value the ISFJ for their consideration and awareness, and their ability to bring out the best in others by their firm desire to believe the best.
ISFJs have a rich inner world that is not usually obvious to observers. They constantly take in information about people and situations that is personally important to them, and store it away. This tremendous store of information is usually startlingly accurate, because the ISFJ has an exceptional memory about things that are important to their value systems. It would not be uncommon for the ISFJ to remember a particular facial expression or conversation in precise detail years after the event occured, if the situation made an impression on the ISFJ.
ISFJs have a very clear idea of the way things should be, which they strive to attain. They value security and kindness, and respect traditions and laws. They tend to believe that existing systems are there because they work. Therefore, they’re not likely to buy into doing things in a new way, unless they’re shown in a concrete way why its better than the established method.
ISFJs learn best by doing, rather than by reading about something in a book, or applying theory. For this reason, they are not likely to be found in fields which require a lot of conceptual analysis or theory. They value practical application. Traditional methods of higher education, which require a lot of theorizing and abstraction, are likely to be a chore for the ISFJ. The ISFJ learns a task best by being shown its practical application. Once the task is learned, and its practical importance is understood, the ISFJ will faithfully and tirelessly carry through the task to completion. The ISFJ is extremely dependable.
The ISFJ has an extremely well-developed sense of space, function, and aesthetic appeal. For that reason, they’re likely to have beautifully furnished, functional homes. They make extremely good interior decorators. This special ability, combined with their sensitivity to other’s feelings and desires, makes them very likely to be great gift-givers - finding the right gift which will be truly appreciated by the recipient.
More so than other types, ISFJs are extremely aware of their own internal feelings, as well as other people’s feelings. They do not usually express their own feelings, keeping things inside. If they are negative feelings, they may build up inside the ISFJ until they turn into firm judgments against individuals which are difficult to unseed, once set. Many ISFJs learn to express themselves, and find outlets for their powerful emotions.
Just as the ISFJ is not likely to express their feelings, they are also not likely to let on that they know how others are feeling. However, they will speak up when they feel another individual really needs help, and in such cases they can truly help others become aware of their feelings.
The ISFJ feels a strong sense of responsibility and duty. They take their responsibilities very seriously, and can be counted on to follow through. For this reason, people naturally tend to rely on them. The ISFJ has a difficult time saying “no” when asked to do something, and may become over-burdened. In such cases, the ISFJ does not usually express their difficulties to others, because they intensely dislike conflict, and because they tend to place other people’s needs over their own. The ISFJ needs to learn to identify, value, and express their own needs, if they wish to avoid becoming over-worked and taken for granted.
ISFJs need positive feedback from others. In the absence of positive feedback, or in the face of criticism, the ISFJ gets discouraged, and may even become depressed. When down on themselves or under great stress, the ISFJ begins to imagine all of the things that might go critically wrong in their life. They have strong feelings of inadequacy, and become convinced that “everything is all wrong”, or “I can’t do anything right”.
The ISFJ is warm, generous, and dependable. They have many special gifts to offer, in their sensitivity to others, and their strong ability to keep things running smoothly. They need to remember to not be overly critical of themselves, and to give themselves some of the warmth and love which they freely dispense to others.
ISFJs are characterized above all by their desire to serve others, their “need to be needed.” In extreme cases, this need is so strong that standard give-and-take relationships are deeply unsatisfying to them; however, most ISFJs find more than enough with which to occupy themselves within the framework of a normal life. (Since ISFJs, like all SJs, are very much bound by the prevailing social conventions, their form of “service” is likely to exclude any elements of moral or political controversy; they specialize in the local, the personal, and the practical.)
ISFJs are often unappreciated, at work, home, and play. Ironically, because they prove over and over that they can be relied on for their loyalty and unstinting, high-quality work, those around them often take them for granted–even take advantage of them. Admittedly, the problem is sometimes aggravated by the ISFJs themselves; for instance, they are notoriously bad at delegating (”If you want it done right, do it yourself”). And although they’re hurt by being treated like doormats, they are often unwilling to toot their own horns about their accomplishments because they feel that although they deserve more credit than they’re getting, it’s somehow wrong to want any sort of reward for doing work (which is supposed to be a virtue in itself). (And as low-profile Is, their actions don’t call attention to themselves as with charismatic Es.) Because of all of this, ISFJs are often overworked, and as a result may suffer from psychosomatic illnesses.
In the workplace, ISFJs are methodical and accurate workers, often with very good memories and unexpected analytic abilities; they are also good with people in small-group or one-on-one situations because of their patient and genuinely sympathetic approach to dealing with others. ISFJs make pleasant and reliable co-workers and exemplary employees, but tend to be harried and uncomfortable in supervisory roles. They are capable of forming strong loyalties, but these are personal rather than institutional loyalties; if someone they’ve bonded with in this way leaves the company, the ISFJ will leave with them, if given the option. Traditional careers for an ISFJ include: teaching, social work, most religious work, nursing, medicine (general practice only), clerical and and secretarial work of any kind, and some kinds of administrative careers.
While their work ethic is high on the ISFJ priority list, their families are the centers of their lives. ISFJs are extremely warm and demonstrative within the family circle–and often possessive of their loved ones, as well. When these include Es who want to socialize with the rest of the world, or self-contained ITs, the ISFJ must learn to adjust to these behaviors and not interpret them as rejection. Being SJs, they place a strong emphasis on conventional behavior (although, unlike STJs, they are usually as concerned with being “nice” as with strict propriety); if any of their nearest and dearest depart from the straight-and-narrow, it causes the ISFJ major embarrassment: the closer the relationship and the more public the act, the more intense the embarrassment (a fact which many of their teenage children take gleeful advantage of). Over time, however, ISFJs usually mellow, and learn to regard the culprits as harmless eccentrics :-). Needless to say, ISFJs take infinite trouble over meals, gifts, celebrations, etc., for their loved ones–although strong Js may tend to focus more on what the recipient should want rather than what they do want.
Like most Is, ISFJs have a few, close friends. They are extremely loyal to these, and are ready to provide emotional and practical support at a moment’s notice. (However, like most Fs they hate confrontation; if you get into a fight, don’t expect them to jump in after you. You can count on them, however, run and get the nearest authority figure.) Unlike with EPs, the older the friendship is, the more an ISFJ will value it. One ISFJ trait that is easily misunderstood by those who haven’t known them long is that they are often unable to either hide or articulate any distress they may be feeling. For instance, an ISFJ child may be reproved for “sulking,” the actual cause of which is a combination of physical illness plus misguided “good manners.” An adult ISFJ may drive a (later ashamed) friend or SO into a fit of temper over the ISFJ’s unexplained moodiness, only afterwards to explain about a death in the family they “didn’t want to burden anyone with.” Those close to ISFJs should learn to watch for the warning signs in these situations and take the initiative themselves to uncover the problem.
- ISFJ Profile (TypeLogic)
Introvert, Sensor, Feeler, Judger (ISFJ)
ISFJs represent between 9 and 14% of the U.S. population
Sensitive, caring, patient, and conscientious, ISFJs can take time to warm up to new ideas and people. Painstakingly accurate and methodical when working with facts and details, ISFJs are patient with follow-through tasks. They tend to take commitments and deadlines very seriously, have excellent memories and are especially good at remembering details pertaining to people. They are patient listeners, eager to help people in real and practical ways. Quiet, private and reserved at first, but once they make a connection they are exceptionally loyal, generous and devoted. ISFJs are down-to-earth and realistic people and use practical judgment in making decisions and lend stability through their excellent commonsense perspective. ISFJs are modest, serious and hardworking and highly supportive of friends and colleagues.
ISFJs Tend To Be:
• Sensitive to others’ perspectives; conscientious
• Organized and able to remember and manage lots of details
• Hard working; quick to help
• Practical, realistic & efficient; adept at executing tasks with precision
• Dependable & likely to take commitments & deadlines seriously
• Focused; able to concentrate for long periods of time alone
Career Satisfiers
All people are most satisfied and successful when using their natural talents in an environment that is consistent with their personality preferences and values. Research shows that ISFJs are most satisfied by jobs that provide the following:
• Clear expectations, objectives, & deadlines that do not often change
• Opportunities to work primarily one-on-one, helping others
• Plenty of time & space to work alone & concentrate on one task at a time without a lot of surprises or interruptions
• A manager whom they admire & who has their best professional interests at heart
• A friendly, cooperative environment, free from conflict or tension
*correction: not having an excellent memories, not really good in remembering details.hehe but except it,i think it’s all true
wuahh udah lama gag nulis blog disini setelah beberapa waktu pindah ke lain hati..haha kmarenan nyoba2 nulis blog di tmpat lain yg lebi menarik tampilannya..hehehe tapi skrg blognya fs lumayan bagus juga kok..hoho so i’m back!!:)
hmm..it’s already september now.and again time just flew so fast.tau2nya udah harus mule mikirin soal kerja praktek,tugas akhir,mikirin nanti slese kuliah ngapain,dll.changes are happening in everyday life.n sometimes i just dont know where i’m going now but to be honest,i’m thankful n grateful for the tomorrow God has planned for me..hohoho:)
kmaren dlm prjalanan pulang gw lewat ringroad,yang di tengahnya lagi bangun jalan tol kebon jeruk-pejompongan yah klo ga salah.hehe cepet juga yah,skrg udah keliatan bentuk jalan tolnya.yang tadinya cuma rawa2/ato buat orang tanem2 sayur,skrg udah ada jalan tolnya, ada tiang2 buat jalan layangnya dll.kynya tiap kali lewat ada aja yang baru,yang bagian sini uda jadi, bagian sana udah mule dibuat.hehe trus gw jd mikir,buat orang2 yang kerja disitu mgkn rasanya lama banget kali yah,kok ga jadi2,mo sampe kapan jalan tolnya jadi.tapi buat orang2 yang lewat kita bisa liat gimana perkembangannya, n mule kliatan bentuk akhirnya nanti kaya apa..hoho trus gw jd mikir..mgkn kita gitu jg kali yah,rasanya kalo skrg lagi dlm proses kita kynya brasa kok lama sih,kpn nih selesenya,kayanya kok gag maju2,tapi tnyata orang lain bisa liat,eh lo tuh sbenernya udah jauh berkembang lagi,udah banyak kemajuan,dll.jadi kdg along the process kita harus coba blajar liat dari kacamata luar,jgn dari kacamata diri sndiri..:) that’s wat i learn yesterday..hohoho
skrg gw lagi berharap2 cemas bwat masuk dunia kerja nih.haha blom dapet tmpat kerja si,masi nyari2..tapi denger2 crita dari temen2 penasaran jg..ky apa si kerja nanti.hoho gw brharap januari nanti bisa udah mulai kp..tadinya sih mau ngejer skrg mulai kp sambil kuliah supaya bisa ta pas smester besok..tapi skrg udah september jg,kynya gag mungkin buat bs kp skrg..blom siap.mana kuliah padet juga..hehe jadi kynya tgs akirnya tetep smster besoknya lagi deh,gag bisa dimajuin..huahuah tapi ga tau deh..liat nanti gimana perkembangannya..hehehe
that’s all for now:)
I wish You could stay
but I’ll, I’ll wait for the day
And I watch as the cold winter melts into spring
And I’ll be remembering You
Oh and I’ll smell the flowers and hear the birds sing
and I’ll be remembering You, I’ll be remembering You
From the first moment when I heard Your name
Something in my heart came alive
You showed me love and no words could explain
A love with the power to
Open the door
To a world I was made for
And I watch as the cold winter melts into spring
And I’ll be remembering You
Oh and I’ll smell the flowers and hear the birds sing
and I’ll be remembering You, I’ll be remembering You
The dark night, the hard fight
The long climb up the hill knowing the cost
The brave death, the last breathe
The silence whispering all hope was lost
The thunder, the wonder
A power that brings the dead back to life
I wish You could stay
But I’ll wait for the day
And though You’ve gone away
You come back and
And I watch as the cold winter melts into spring
And I’ll be remembering You
Oh and I’ll smell the flowers and hear the birds sing
and I’ll be remembering You, I’ll be remembering You
And I’ll watch as the sun fills a sky that was dark
And I’ll be remembering You
And I’ll think of the way that You fill up my heart
And I’ll be remembering You
I’ll be remembering You
I’ll be remembering You
I’ll be remembering You
I don’t need a lot of things
I can get by with nothing
Of all the blessings life can bring
I’ve always needed something
But I’ve got all I want
When it comes to loving you
You’re my only reason
You’re my only truth
reff:
I need you like water
Like breath, like rain
I need you like mercy
From heaven’s gate
There’s a freedom in your arms
That carries me through
I need you
You’re the hope that moves me
To courage again
You’re the love that rescues me
When the cold winds, rage
And it’s so amazing
‘Cause that’s just how you are
And I can’t turn back now
‘Cause you’ve brought me too far
hoho.it’s already the second week in april.ujian tinggal skali lagi.walopun ngelewatinnya penuh prjuangan.hehe contohnya konsbang tuh.sampe berdarah-darah.malah ampe kena ke kertas ujian.jadi bayangin dong gw lagi ngerjain pusing musti gambar plafon plus potongannya yang susah gtu eh tiba2 aja tes tes,gw mimisan n darahnya kena ke krtas gambar.stres deh gw.mana tu krtas gmbr uda agak kotor,ga tau gmbr gw bener pa ngga,ada darahnya lagi.haduhh ga tau d tu konsbang dapet brapa nilainya.hoho pdhl terakhir gw menodai krtas ujian klo ga salah pas ulangan otoy tuh dulu sma.stlah sekian taon tragedi lagi.ehehe moga2 gag ngaruh nilai ya darahnya.hoho
anyway.byk tmen2 uda pd mau selese kuliah yah.taon ini uda pada skripsi gtu.haduh cepet banget si.how time flies.pdhl kayanya baru maren lulus2an yaa.skrg uda pd mo slese n nyari kerja.ckckck.tp gw masi setaon lagi ni.mudah2an si akhir 2009 bisa uda selse.tapi blom bisa kebayang abis itu jadi interior designer.could i? hoho blom kebayang ^^
quote for the day: life is change.growth is optional.choose it wisely.
holla.. it’s been a long timee..baru skrg ada niat buat nulis blog..(^^,)
huaahhh..minggu ini cukup berat dan memusingkan ni.. banyak rencana yang uda dibuat pada buyarr..ga tau napa koq jd pd kacau kynya.. jadwal mo ngapain2 yang biasa gw tulis di kalender bulanan gw minggu ini batal semuanya.. ga ada yang jalan..malah ampe presentasi aja yang harusnya kmaren jumat jalan batal juga, satu gara2 dosennya gag dateng, satu lagi gara2 kitanya blom pada selese tugasnya jadi kita minta diundur..harusnya gw sedih apa seneng ya? haiyahh.. abisnya pusing,, ky mo survey kantor aja uda pegi kesana kemari ngasi proposal tapi tau2nya pada ga ada waktu gt..pdhl waktunya udah mepet banget ni..huhuhuhu.. gimana doonggg..gara2 blom dapet kantor yg bisa disurvey lagi jadi numpuk2 ni tugasnya.. mggu besok udah mule uts lagi,,huaahuaahhuaa konsep DI harus uda jadi dalem waktu 2 mggu kurang pula.. huhuhu
anyway,, salah satu penghiburan gw skrg adalah si dexter n nio,, hamster2 gw di rumah.. n skarang udah ada anaknya 7 ekorr,,baru umur seminggu.. btw tu anak2 lahir tanpa sepengetauan gw tuh.. baru gw mo nanya temen gw napa si nio jadi gendut bgitu,, eh jumat mggu lalu tiba2 beranak..tadinya 8 ekor tapi mati satu anaknya..hoho lucu jg nio yang tadinya galak suka gigitin gw bisa jadi ibu yg bertanggungjwab sama anak2nya..hehehe tp hr ini gw liat mukanya si nio ky abis digigit gt.. mgkn sm si dexter digigit kali..kekerasan rumah tangga ni..ckckck
yahh,,that’s it for now..moga2 next week semuanya bisa balik ke normal lagi.. ada kantor yang bisa langsung disurvey,, tugas2 cepet selesai,, ide plus konsep buat DI mengalir,,uts bisa dapet bagus semua,,semuanya lancar..AMIN!! (^^,)
there’s hope.. by India Arie
Back when I had a little
I thought that I needed a lot
A little was over rated,
But a lot was a little too complicated
You see-Zero didn’t satisfy me
A million didn’t make me happy
That’s when I learned a lesson
That it’s all about your perception
Hey-are you a papa or a superstar
So you act, so you feel, so you are
It ain’t about the size of your car
It’s about the size of the faith in your heart
There’s hope
It doesn’t cost a thing to smile
You don’t have to pay to laugh
You better thank God for that
(repeat)
There’s hope
Off in the back country of Brazil
A met a young brotha that made me feel
That I could accomplish anything.
You see just like me he wanted to sing
He had no windows and no doors
He lived a simple life and was extremely poor
On top of all of that he had no eye sight,
But that didn’t keep him from seein’ the light
He said, what’s it like in the USA,
And all I did was complain
He said-living here is Paradise
He taught me paradise in in your mind
You know that
Every time I turn on the T.V.
Somebody’s acting crazy
If you let it, it will drive you crazy
But I’m takin’ back my power today
Gas prices they just keep on rising
The government they keep on lying
But we gotta keep on surviving
Keep living our truth and do the best we can do
Stand up for your rights
Keep shining your light
And show the world your smile